To all of the women whose feelings have been hurt by Chiquito and Lolita...it's nothing personal. It's just your gender.
Chiquito is openly aggressive toward women, but Lolita will simply ignore you (unless you're holding a bottle of formula).
Initially I thought Lolita liked older men with facial hair, and that still appears to be her preference. But Norman's son Jose switched seats with him and was able to lure Lolita with a pair of sunglasses, after which she warmed right up. Norman's wife Any was relegated to snapping pictures...just like all of the other wives before her. (That's you, Lee Ann, Jennifer, Gloria, Carol, and Dianne.)
I'm fortunate that both monkeys consider me "mom" ...and don't treat me like a woman.